There are several ways to contact me...
You may contact be via email. The address is email@example.com.
Be forewarned: I get approximately 10,000 junk emails each day. Therefore, I have programs that block pretty much every email that I receive. The chance that I will actually see your email is fairly slim. Do not be surprised if I never respond.
If I find your phone number, can I call you?
Yes. Go ahead and try. I do not answer my phone and I have one of those old answering machines that uses a cassette tape. The tape is broken and doesn't spin correctly. So, it rewinds and plays the outgoing message. Then, it sticks and never records anything. I may hear it ring, but I won't know you actually called.
I do use IM. I do not use a public account. So, don't ask me to be on your buddy list. You won't be on mine. Man, I sure am anti-social.